I am going to do a 180 on communication with H. I will be nice and pleasant to him at home, if he initiates nice and pleasant with me. I won't mope or have a sad face even if he is being Alien. But I will only communicate on cell phone with him if he calls me. I will not initiate any cell calls. No more quick calls to see how his day has gone etc., or what/if he would like me to start for dinner.
I am going to stop reaching out in any way and let him do all the initiating.
I wonder how long it will take for him to notice?
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
