OM giving my W a ring and her wearing it is a bigger factor in feeling I am done. I felt done last week, but the revelation about the ring sort of cemented it for me. That I could laugh about it and not cry was another indicator. W is just lost and miserable, and OM is the quick fix to her feelings.
I've spent more time on these boards than I have on e-mails with OW. I think too much of my kids to go out and make the same mistakes my W is making. When the time comes for a new R, I will try to start at my church, so our religious beliefs are paralleled. For now any R but my M will just complicate my life and would be a disaster.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
