Hang in there, man you will know when u have had all u can handle. Just remember, 48 hrs, we all know we have no chance with our W until the OM is gone. Then that is when we really have to decide. Yes u need to be prepared for urself if the D goes thru. And being by ur kids would be great.
Like u have been such a good supporter for me, u dont have to make definate decisons now. Just be prepared for D and protecting urself and beeing with ur kids. Like i said u will know when u are really finished. By all means shared custody would be great. Continue what ur doing for urself. Im like u, i have to let go, easier said than done i know. Like the saying is, if u love something let it go, if it was met to be it will come back. So lets start together letting go. Hang in the buddy, we will make it.
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!