No reason your H needs to know what you are planning. I made the mistake of telling my H what I was doing all afternoon Sunday when he asked. It was 19 years of habit and I regretted it as soon as it was out of my mouth. He lost his "right" to know about your life when he left it but giving him a vague answer would be appropriate to DB principles. It's the illusion of keeping him "in the loop" without giving too much info.
I would definitely not worry about the house until you come back from your vacation. Where are you going? Somewhere sunny?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
