My W is still over her friend's house. She called today and we chatted. I'm afraid our conversations aren't interesting anymore. When she calls its to "check in."

I missed her being in bed last night. I missed being able to put my arm around her. I missed the opportunity to validate her feelings. Worst of all I fear what she will be like when she comes home.

She will have spent a few days with the OM (EA)in her life. Because of their friendship, he will have had more fun with her than I could. He will be there to listen to her problems. He will have the chance to alone.

Fixer