I have a new one for you. H came home from the snowmobile show and we talked for quite a while. He had a good time and shared it all with me in detail. He even planned that we would go together next year.
Then somehow, as he was sitting in the living room and right before my eyes,the Alien came and replaced my H! I knew that he was tired, as was I, so I asked if he wanted to go up and watch the rest of the football game in bed. He flipped out! I totally was taken by surprise. He ranted and raved about how I was controling him and "this was his life", in bed on a Saturday night by 8:30 blah, blah, blah. I was dumbfounded. I said, but H, you were watching tv, I just asked if you wanted to watch in bed...he snarled, well what do you want to do? Go to a disco? WTF? Then he screamed "Stop looking at me, get the F away from me!" I went downstairs and slept in the den. I could hear him crying upstairs! What the heck happened?
Sunday he got up and did not speak a word to me until almost 1:00, and then it was to tell me that I was making too much noise and to get out of the house and leave him alone. He told me to go visit my boys.
So, I got cleaned up and quietly left the house. I drove around for a while, and ended up visiting with my oldest son. When I came home a few hours later all he could say was "where were you, where did you go?" I didn't answer, just made a plate of cheese and crackers and went upstairs and watched tv. He never came up to the bedroom and must have slept on the couch.
He got up this morning, got ready and left for work without a word to me. I was so bewildered by his behavior that all I could be was detached. It was so evident that it was something that he was feeling bad about and he was taking it out on me. This time I didn't feel even sad. He was acting crazy.
MT, about the phone number, I did try to search it, it says that it is a land line, but from the number I can tell it is a cell. So it is probably one of those prepaid ones. So, I will follow your advice and try to put it out of my mind. Nothing I can do about it. He will do what he wants. The calls were not very long, nothing like when he and EA were talking. Oh well.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
