My Story, Part Vier

[KenF]

she finally presented me with 2 alternate schedules, both of which conflicted with my Tues/Thurs workout schedule, as i expected. both were messy and had no real consistancy, 4 days on 4 days off. and then something i never could figure out what she was thinking.

of course with her schedules i could never make any plans without first referring to the calendar.

so i stood my ground and let her know that i felt that in the big scheme of things the issues our daughter will have through her life, dealing with the schedule and being passed back and forth 4 times a week will the the least of her problems. I told her that regardless of schedule our daughter will have issues because of the divorce she wanted. and of course she claimed she didnt want the divorce and I'M going around playing the victim role. wtf?

I accepted none of her BS. I was more forceful than ever before in our R, usually i'll just accept whatever comes my way and avoid conflict. not any more.

so after all was said and done she went out with a friend and came home saying she didnt intend to start a fight (BS!) and that my schedule was fine all along.

the gloves came off when she hired an aggressive lawyer who is going after everything i own.

my STBXW has never in her life been able to save, regardless of her payscale and bills. she always finds a way to spend more than she makes. on the other hand i have always lived well below my means and gone without to save for the future. Now her L is claiming she deserves half of it all and i'm responsible for half her debt. just really irks me.