Don't know what to do- Please help

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Thank you

I did get another email back from her basically she is saying he chased her, he told her I was a domineering wife who wouldn't let him out of the house. They he only married me because he felt obligated, and that he never loved me.
But I can't see 18 yrs of obligation...I know that i was a bitch, and i know how I was. But I also know that I have changed.
He tells me he loves me, that me and the kids are what he wants, and I don't believe they have actually met, but then again who knows.
He has agreed to go back to his C and also wants to do retrouvaille again. But does not want to do marriage counselling.

I have told him we have to go slow this time, and have no big expectations and just see where we go.