As to all...grace, princess SPM...et al., whatever happens, our spouse's get a piece of us. I always found it to be ironic that, your spouse can boink 20 guys, lie, cheat, etc...break the vows...and then they are entitled to half of everything.
Something wrong here.......
Anyway, the financials are a scary thing. Eg, my atty would 'love' to see the house go into foreclosure, etc. In fact, some people have told me that I should not take any new job that pays more since she will get more.
But....uh....hmmmm...if I was able to build my practice up enough to support us better...she would get part of that too. Do you go under for the 'sake of divorce' or do you take an opportunity to give your kids a chance?
Finally....I simply live now ..the brunt of disgust...disdain....non communication. My W didn't tell me that my son had his first Cub Scout meeting the other day. I continually fill out the calendar. My W has stopped. It would be easy to go backwards and say, "well, if she isn't going to keep me informed, I'm not going to keep HER informed". I think that's little boy stuff. I will keep MY status quo for now.
GAL...Saturday, I took the kids apple picking. Yesterday, I made MY FIRST APPLE PIES from Cortland apples. Jeff....you'd be proud. ford....keeps my hand's softer than yours. LOL.
And...I left a written message that I wanted to take the kids shopping today. S8 needs a suit for a family affair in 2 weeks. I called the house this morning, greeted my W on the phone and asked to speak to D5.
She invited me to go pumpking picking with them today.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
