At the beginning of the summer W and I were in the process of buying houses. I bought a place myself and W and OW bought a place together. At that time W decided that we needed a Sep. Agreement. When we were working on that W said something like "The next step will be to get a D done."
I later found out that the Sep. Agreement wasn't her idea. The mortgage company told her that she had to have one because she was buying a house with someone other than me.
Since then she has not mentioned a D at all.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford