Thanks Braveheart - I'm sorry you feel that way. If you aren't here for hope and how to cope...why are you here?
I'm sorry if the truth offends you. If you want me to lie to you and give you false hope, then you are talking to the wrong person. As I have pointed out in my post, people in MLC RARELY come back, not never, but RARELY. I say that with absolute certainty. I can say that, because if you will watch these boards, that is exactly what happens. Listen, I have seen so many people here work thier guts out and have thier feelings and hearts ripped apart by some of thier mean-spirited spouses and X-spouses that it actually breaks my heart to hear these stories. I guess my reason for being here is to be the voice of reason and realisim for people. I honestly hope that you can work things out with your H, I really do, and if you do, God bless you for it. What I say is based on observations and being involved here for a long time. Don't take my word for it, read these posts and stories and see for yourself.