We're here to support you not judge you, please don't ever feel you can't advise or post (I missed you!). Our choices and actions make us wiser in the long run and make us able to be more empathic when relating to other people. 'Standing for our marriage' does not mean that we take the moral highground in my opinion, in fact it has has been a fairly humbling experience for me in many repects. It makes us look deep within ourselves.
We all make mistakes, it's how we deal with them that matters and I think that the fact you took responsibility and apologised is a credit to you. We are all in difficult situations at the moment and can't get comfort from our nearest and dearest and we are, after all, only human.
