It takes awhile with regard to forgiveness. At first you are in shock, then you want to take matters into your own hands, then you get angry, and so on. I started off like that and I did other things as well but went to my pastors and they asked me which direction i wanted to go and helped me along the way.
Forgiving, patience, loving unconditionally all take time--lots of it and does not happen overnight.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
