I think it is great that you have confronted the OM. You are taking control of your situation. That is where the control needs to be. I am intrigued by his claims that she is weird and perhaps has a personality disorder. He says that, but he still wants to be with her? She does sound like a pathological liar. I think you have been fed so much horse manure that you need to know the truth to be able to make your decisions.
