BBJ,

All I can say is WOW. You put it out there....very courageously. I am totally impressed with you and k this evening.

I could go line by line of what he said...stuff like electric...if he wants to feel electric, tell him to stick his fingers in the socket. Blaming you for choosing a different college???? I got the I don't feel the same as when we met speech and to me that is the sign of a person who is still attached to someone else...but maybe i am wrong. I am biased, I have been stung in the past and i am just leery of this type of conversation. Maybe the best thing would be for him to pack up and giive you a sign if and when he changes his mind....but that is easier said than done.
From where I sit, I can tell one thing...you BBJ have grown tremendously and are one hell of a woman. And YES you do deserve someone who loves you and is committed to you 100%. I hope you still believe it could be your H and I hope he wakes up soon.