"FG, I thought that was what we had done.......and well."
Imagine that!?
I agree.
"Okay, so I didn't know what to tell her, but hey, I'm not too crazy about her H (to tell you the truth.....I think she is way too good for him), but anyway, glad you knew what to tell her b/c I sure ran out of soap."
We all have our places where we "shine". Trust me.. I did not expect this with Christa's stitch. I was sure we were gonna have to go into support mode and build her up again. I would have bet on it. DB.com has "showed" me that things never go according to plan. But you have to leave the door open "somewhere". We knew "poking" him was a unsafe bet... and there was some "behind the scenes" coaching. But the attitude change is Christa is HUGE. Trust me on that. From the times way back I saw her posting.. I thought she was a bit "over the top". She is still a work in progress.. but she is a lot better now. Her H will need to step out some.. but I don't want Christa pulling him out. Right now we focus on getting her and him thru C. The Work is not done yet.. it is very likely just starting.
"Christa, I hope your MC goes along with the BD techniques/principles or I can almost predict what will happen. Sure hope you got a good one! Lots of good thoughts, hugs, and prayer comining your way."
This is a concern of mine too. I am still not 100% sure we have the right C for the job.. but.. we are gonna have to roll with it. From what I know they have agreed on the C.. so that is a step. I would suspect the first session may be.. "Hairy". I have advised Christa.. to "pull back" at the first session.. and let him lead some. Lets get his thought's here so we can help her. Trust me.. she will vent here.
For whatever reason.. Christa is in a situation where things can change. Not tomorrow.. not next week.. not next month.. but down the road. The next 2 weeks will likely be really important.
Christa.. keep us all in the loop. I suspect I will need some help.
We are all right here.
Have a great day.
And Sandi2.. glad you are here.
Now...
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
