I have done something that some of you veteran DBers would caution against but I am beyond caring.
OM put the pictures of W back on his Flickr account so I called him. I was polite, firm and succinct and we spoke for about 90 minutes. It turns out that my W has been completely deceiving both me and him for the last 9 months. He has also been absolutely shafted throughout this entire episode and from the very beginning and hurt many times. He said he would remove the pictures which he has done but W is still listed as one of his contacts.
The little worm was apologizing to me profusely and really afraid that I would harm him because I know where he lives.
It turns out he is not moving to Eastern Europe at all - this is a massive deception that my W has spun me.
It's strange. I am beginning to forget what normal felt like but I want it back. W will either agree to my terms for reconciling or I will divorce her. I really don't care any more. OM was saying things that everyone else has been telling me about my W - that she is weird, has some real issues, potential personality disorder etc.
Since I am being told this by a lot of people I am beginning to believe that it is true and that I don't want to be married to someone like that.
Maybe it goes against DBing to do this but I am past caring. I will eventually prevail no matter what and will not be deceived.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
