Sometimes he seems P%^&ed off when I am not chasing him down all the time ie this weekend. I left my phone at work on Saturday and did not contact him at all. He always seems moody after things like this. Then he is also shitty when I ask him what he has been doing and where abouts......However it might be my imagination but he seems to be quietly letting me know where he is.
He's mad because he wants you to chase him even if he acts like he doesn't want you. but the fact that he is letting you know where he is might be a result of you not being in constant contact with him. It could also be a subtle hint that he would like this from you. After my W's A in april; she would call me and let me know where she was all the time and when she'd be back. Of course, when she started her new A's she gave that up.
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We have a big thing ( relationship wise ) coming up this weekend. Friends get together - but it is the guys end of fishing trip wind up with wifes invited. I have told him that I will not go unless he would like to take me ( I said this because he made comment that I make him uncomfortable around them ). Well my friends are not happy with the thought I may not be there. I also will be very hurt. I am not sure i could take that kind of slap in the face from him. Remebering my friends and in fact no one except H. OM and myself know this was a PA .
If they are your friends too; I say that you go, enjoy yourself, and ignore him if you have too. He needs to get over being uncomfortable around you. Frankly, you need to go have a good time with friends so long as you're NOT uncomfortable.
