I think when I was talking about coming to play i thought i was flirting rather than inviting but it was really inviting.
I know H is better when I give him space, listen to him, respect his judgement and leave his business alone.
I think i can keep doing this.
I am a little confused on one area and that is:
Sometimes he seems P%^&ed off when I am not chasing him down all the time ie this weekend. I left my phone at work on Saturday and did not contact him at all. He always seems moody after things like this. Then he is also shitty when I ask him what he has been doing and where abouts......However it might be my imagination but he seems to be quietly letting me know where he is.
We have a big thing ( relationship wise ) coming up this weekend. Friends get together - but it is the guys end of fishing trip wind up with wifes invited. I have told him that I will not go unless he would like to take me ( I said this because he made comment that I make him uncomfortable around them ). Well my friends are not happy with the thought I may not be there. I also will be very hurt. I am not sure i could take that kind of slap in the face from him. Remebering my friends and in fact no one except H. OM and myself know this was a PA .
Thoughts anyone on what is acceptable to take as punishment for A. Is this not such a big deal ?
