YOu need to put yourself over him. He has been hurting for at a couple of years. You can't keep going like this. Maybe he will finally find the respect he should have had for you along when he sees/hears what a true Chit he has been to you and the kids. Hugs.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory