Well, I'm giving the info to the L and I guess she will sift through it and decide what is good or not. I'm just giving her the ammo and she gets to do the dirty work. But I think it will change our R hugely b/c I've never really hurt him like that, which is kind of how I feel like it. But I think he is really going to be my adversary in this, and I have to put the kids over him. He doesn't, someone has to. And that's why I guess I'll do it. Karen
