Upside I can understand your uncomfortability about meeting your H and His friend maybe take a little time meditate or journel about it I dont think your H would ask you to go if he didnt want you there or he may want to show you he is trying with this reconciliation..either way it is a nice gesture on his part I would definitely thank him for thinking of you whether you go or not I think you will have that weekend or night away..it is coming just let it be in H time..I know you are patient and it hasnt been easy, but I would suggest you give H more time dont push..let go agian and again He is there right there..he doesnt want to lose you he will feel less pressure and come around quicker peace
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