Don't know what to do- Please help

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Thank you both

I don't think I will ask to see it, she sent another email back, and basically said he is spinning a tale as to how she is, and that how he will do anything when confronted.
I did email back and told her basically she is no saint, and alot of what I know about her is from coworkers and not him, and also from what I have seen with my own eyes.
I kind of let her have it, and to be honest it felt good to do it!
But I still kept my cool, and didn't stoop to her level!

But in the long run it doesn't help much, I am still left with this mess, and trying to sort it all out.
He said earlier that she was the one to initiate contact again, and he thought he would get her to go away.
But now I just don't know, now I wonder just how much lies there are, and do I need to know all the facts in order to make the right decision.

Its hard, my son heard us arguing this morning, and was in tears, telling us it scares him when we fight! so I just don't know what to do!