Garry, Its important for you to remember that you aren't the crazy one. WAWs become crazy. Your job for yourself and your kids is to be the source of reason as much as possible. Don't give in to her craziness. I know this sounds crazy but your job as a man and a husband is to be a rock...be her rock. Stand back to give her space but don't give in to her wishiwashy-ness. It is obvious to me that she is facing some dark demons in her life. Don't be an accomplice to them. Instead, pray very hard for her. You can do it Garry. I know that this is hard.