It was him who chickened out the next day after asking me to help him move out BUT he did move out himself a few weeks after that, was home for about five weeks, then moved out again. He has been gone for six months now.

No, I never ran his life for him at all. He makes his own decisions, and no, I was never the type to tell him what to do, or ask him to do things for me like fill up my gas tank, do this, do that.

This is not about ow at all. It is a place to escape from reality because he is hitting bottom. Lace his drink? No, that would be manipulating and controlling a situation I have no control over. I really have to leave it to God. It is all in His perfect timing.

He has had extensive study while in seminary with regard to mental illness and AD's. That is why he is so opposed to being drugged.

Last edited by MidwesternGirl; 10/12/08 05:29 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19