Yes I think H is softening to me. This is why he is also somewhat OK with me being there Thursday through Monday coming up. Of course not sure how much he's actually OK, but he didn't act upset, and only a few weeks ago he said he'd never want me to stay the night.
I am planning instead of the "Trial" to try and just do days here and there between trips, and let him know that if he's uncomfortable, I always have someplace to go, and then maybe go of my own accord on a couple of days. I think something more natural like that would be less stressful for both of us. It would also give him more control, which he likes, by not tying him down to a timeframe.
Still haven't heard from him this weekend, a bit odd, but I have to work from my hotel soon so may see him online. Bottom line is I've decided that even if he asks me to stay tomorrow night I'm going to decline, unless it's accompanied by some amazing outpouring of love!
:)I will be writing that new and specific letter very soon.
Jus in my cab now headed to the suburbs of Paris...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
