They EXPECT us to trust their word. They EXPECT us not to question them whatsoever. We are expected to believe they will never screw us over, and the moment we pause and start to show a little doubt, they immediately erupt. WE are causing such turmoil for THEM.
(((((((Corey)))))))
Yep, and the funny thing is no sane, normal person would have 100% trust in them involved with OW's!!! They are probably sensitive & defensive b/c they know deep down they are untrustworthy and it bothers them. Karen
Then because I have had such a problem biting my tongue these last few days, I had to throw in that it would also be for my protection and he went freakin' ballistic.
F him. The first thing you need to do is to look out for your interests and the kids first. Good advice but not always easy to follow. I would not have call back, thats just me. Not jumping you on it, just learn from it. Other than that just let him deal with it. Now I would not trust my W if she said the sky was blue.
Take care of yourself and the k's.
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A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Thanks guys. Just takin' it easy and trying not to overthink life too much. H didn't talk to me until Saturday when I think he had time to realize that what I said wasn't really all that offensive. He was still kinda "bristly" about it, but I think he actually realizes he hasn't been the poster child for truth recently so he pretty much got over it. He is totally willing to sign it and is now encouraging me to do so. She has about 4 weeks to go so we need to get it done.
So Saturday night I'm at the wedding I'm shooting and the mother of the bride comes up to me (she has known my MIL since she was 14 and has known my H all his life.) and says, "So I hear your divorcing!" and I said, "Not yet." She then tells me she wants to "Kick his a$$" for what he is doing. I told her to feel free. Then she says how what he is doing is so wrong and I agreed, then she asks, "Well what is he doing?" WTF? So I just excused myself. The humorous part of this is that her daughter, the one that got married, is the child of an A. The mother was the OW and got pregnant and had a baby with this guy. He was married and was cheating with this lady. Then he got divorced and married someone else...while still seeing the brides mother. This gives me an insight into how stupid and desparate some of these OW are. Interesting though, how easy it is to judge...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I really think all of these delusional people think that their situation is different or special so that are some excluded from the judgment. Sad really. But it is so true that everyone wants the fairy tale romance...just don't know who it happens for.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Apparently I'm starting to crack under the pressure....LOL! Today was the Trolls first day of maternity leave and I came home and checked the caller id (old habit) and there was a call here from a strange number at about 11:45. So my mind goes into overdrive because its identified as a payphone. So I go into superspy mode, which is pretty scary. Anyway, I mentioned it to H later tonight and he freaks out and calls me paranoid. Maybe I am, but what does a pregnant troll with too much time on her hands do? I just don't need the hassles, yah know? She already has us signed up on mailing lists and stuff. I don't want any of her lowlife friends or relatives around when I'm not. DS is here after school by himself. I'm probably putting too much effort into this, but anymore I just don't believe in coincidences.
I need a vacation. LOL! I drive myself crazy sometimes. Anyway, I just thought I would share, cuz it is kinda funny. But not funny HAHA.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
