Everyone -- thanks for your ideas, I appreciate them. Diane, you are right. Right now I'm looking for ways to show desire without necessarily getting to the sex every day. My H had a good analogy -- if he had betrayed me, he would know that I like flowers and would bring me flowers every day. Even if I threw them away, he would still bring them. And eventually I would accept them. And we would get to the point where I wouldn't need flowers every day. That's what I need to do with sex. We have to get to the point where he doesn't need sex every day -- that's just unrealistic I think. Thanks again to everyone. I did go to a sexy shop yesterday and bought a few things that we both like! LL
