You will hear this a million times, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. To help you have the chance to hold your life together you need to stop giving him all the power in your relationship and focus on you and the kids. I have been there and am a work in progress. You CAN do this. Hugs.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory