M, You've had a busy week. How are you doing today?
I'm glad to see that your h took the girls shopping, but it sounds like he's having a very difficult time adjusting to sitting around and doing nothing. The blood pressure reading isn't good. He needs to see a doctor about it and we all know he needs to make the decision to go.
The next time he leaves and you think he's not doing well, why not suggest he stay? You could offer up the couch for him to bunk on if that would make him feel safe. I know that you don't want to do this, but you've got to test the waters a bit and I'm concerned about his driving when he's not feeling well.
I hope that you have the day off and can get off your feet for a bit. Maybe the girls can help you out w/some of the chores?
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
