Things sound really good. I just think that you have to be careful of the "brother" or "roomate" thing. At one point in my sitch, when things were going seemingly good, I got those thrown at me because we weren't "touching" or something to that effect. Hopefully she is realizing what she has and is just slow.
Your like me and "read" everything that our wives say or do. Reactions and facial expressions and little tests. Kinda funny.
Sounds to me like the affair is over and she even knows what a POS he is. She may even regret it, but that doesn't mean that she will forget how it felt. Not her guilt, but how he made her feel about herself.
That will always be there, I think. All you can do is keep showing yourself to be a prize.
And at that, you do a great job. Your a hell of a fighter. Keep it up.
I wonder if its time to go out to a bar, like you did during vacation. Get yourselves a little lubed, have a great time, get close to her. Maybe some dancing. Then try some kind of a move.
What do you think?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
