Hi Treese, I wouldn't send a card either. It wouldn't be well received and would appear as pursueing and your H would probably see it as poor old Treese still clinging to the past. Let him wonder IF your actually thinking of him on that day. Its hard but not impossible. I hope you have planned to keep busy on that day to give your mind less chance to wander. Do something nice for you, acknowledge it in your heart as the day you embarked upon the path that gave you your beautiful children and celebrate them. Deal with the now and what is, no one knows what lies ahead. You can do this, deep down you have the strength. Dig deep and do not let this man rob you of anymore joy and happiness that will come your way if you are open to it. ((((()))))
