BND, I didn't mean to offend you! HeartScared is right, I have not read your story. I have not figured out if there is an easy way to follow people's threads back in time unless they have posted them on each new thread.
I have learned some of the things you mentioned, but not all of them. My H and I have been having problems at some level for about 7-10 years already, so as much as I would like to believe that everything will be hunky-dory if he ever comes out of this MLC/affair stuff, I actually am skeptical about things getting much better any time soon. This is why I keep thinking that a miracle will be required for things to get better at all, much less become wonderful again. I'm not holding my breath, but I am praying a lot. I even pray for OW, although it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
I will see if I can find your older threads and read up.
Blessings and peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
