Thanks for that. I won't be sending the email anymore :). And actually I've booked a hotel for tomorrow night in Dublin, so won't remind him of Dublin. I forwarded him my hotel booking, and told him what it costs, so he knows. If he wants us to save the money, he can let me know.
I will send him an email on Thursday morning with my arrival time if we don't discuss it beforehand. I would be shocked though if he didn't bring something up first. Jody mentioned that he really likes to have control of the sitch, so in fact he may want to preempt me from saying anything.
I guess for him this last week has probably been a really big stress. Hopefully he liked having me there, but must have been overwhelming. Also lots of emails back and forth around dates and such that weren't always happy. Pretty sure he feels like his house of cards is tumbling. Let's just hope that when I'm around he realizes he doesn't have to give everything up to be around me...
I have a long indirect flight to Paris this afternoon, so must head off to get ready now.
At least the next few days will be jam-packed busy, good for distractions!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!