How to move foreward...

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So, like I said earlier, I would'nt go out of my way to fix him a nice dinner.

If that is what you have been doing in the past, you need to do a 180. He may have taken you for granted, or seen your efforts as attempts to gain his love.

I will tell you that as a man, neediness is a really unattractive quality. I'm sure it is for women as well. Or perhaps in your case, it created a parent-child dynamic, and he is acting like an irresponsible child.

I think you did too much for this guy, or at least too much of the wrong thing. I did too much for my W in some ways, not enough in others.