Hi Txmom, don't knowwhat IMHO is either. I thought I was making progress but had a horrible day as far as DBing. H called me today about a bill and he started to complain about money (since that is all he has been doing spending money like crazy), it escalated into other bills, and then H said I was nagging him etc, and I blew it by saying I resented that the Ow got to spend the day with her whole family for her daughter's wedding today and I am here alone because we moved 2000 miles from my family and now you left us. Then H started screaming that he was NEVER going to live with me again and I just better move on. He said our marriage was horrible and he was unhappy for 21 years. I was destroyed. I know only listen to 1/2 what they say, but then he gave daughter a ride to party, he said I am not going to church tomorrow with you. I know H is out now, probably getting drunk and depressed. I didn't know what to do so when D was out I went to go see Fireproof ... alone. What an impact it had on me. Can't remember if you went to see it -- if not go. People started clapping at the end. I thought it would be this preachy movie but it really struck a chord in me and I need to hang tight no matter how dismal today was. My first bomb came on 7/27 so it has been less than 3 months so I need to stay strong and have faith. I am glad that the night ended ok after seeing that movie. I cried and cried and cried. I have to be believe tomorrow will be better. We are newbies at this, and seeing how well ST did gives us faith. ST did your H move out on you?
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
