I spent my first night alone in the the house on Sat. It was H's weekend and suggested that they stay at his house. H seemed surprised by that and asked why. I said I thought that we should start doing that. H ended up letting D10 stay at a friend's house which is where she was most of the weekend. I guess it is his weekend to do what he wants with.
Friday is D15 bday. I asked H the about if he wanted to have dinner with us. I said we would have to go out because D10 has a skating lesson and D15 has plans later in the evening. H said we could do that or he could cook. I was shocked by the offer and don't think he has many recipes in his cookbook. I told him I thought we should leave it up to D.
I also asked H if he got a gift for D yet. I have of course, and I figure he had given it no thought. That was one of the many things I always took care of. I guess he got the hint that he was to get his own gift, but he had to ask for ideas.
Should be an interesting week.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
I made it through D's birthday. She is now offically sweet 16. Next weekend she will be having a bonfire at my house to celebrate with friends. H has agreed to help, but I'l see if he pulls through or not. In the past I have done most of the party planning and throwing.
H ended up getting D a gift. Of course I had to make suggestions and he called and texted me several times during the process. I was surprised that he bought her a very nice card. We went out for a dysfunctional family dinner as well.
I ended up breaking out in hives this week. I think it is probably stress although my Dr. is sure it is an allerrgic reaction to something. H thinks it is stress...hmmmm, maybe he should stop inducing stress. As he told a mutual friend this week nothing has changed. Which translated from WAS speak means, H still doesn't want to be married, but he still doesn't want to do anything about it and file. The clock is ticking and he is running out of time.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Red...from one mother to another welcome to the years of you know nothing and your D knows everything. <~~~nods in sympathy... (JKING...swear!!! but it made you laugh a minute...)
(((RED))) Stop itching...
Colloidal oatmeal baths. Works wonders.
Hope you are feeling better...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Nothing much to post. We celebrated D's sweet 16 on Saturday. H had offer to build a fire pit in the woods behind my house so that D could have a bonfire. He waited until Saturday to do it, but he got it done. It took him a few hours to cut a tree down, split wood and make the pit. The teens had a great time and I'm glad we did this for D. H even told me a did a nice job.
It was his weekend but because of the party the Ds spent most of weekend with me. H also had to go into work yesterday afternoon. After that he picked up the Ds to go to his house. He invited me over for dinner. I normally say no, but I decided I would go this time. I only spent about an hour there, and of course H continues to do confusing things.
His house is a mess, and it took all my will power not to start cleaning.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Good job. Can you tell my ex not to clean my place. It freaks me out.
And what would you tell me Woog? Your game, your rules. I would guess she does it out of guilt. I wanted to because the place was such a mess that I didn't want the Ds to have to deal with it. It reminded me of Robin Williams apt. in Mrs. Doubtfire before he gets his act together. I'm just can't wait to see H in drag
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
(JKING...swear!!! but it made you laugh a minute...)