For the Guy with Kids and a WW Diez y Seis

[hopeful4her]

I guess I should have said that I need to stop thinking about it. It almost seems impossible in the quiet times.

She's perplexing. Like a case study.

There's been some contact between us today. I had to email her about things that we still need to get for D6's party. I didn't do it as a reply to her email to me. Just a very matter of fact statement and question. I have asked her a couple times already asking what else I can bring. My email said what I'll be getting today and if there is anything else we need. No courtesies.

No reply before I left work. Found out from my folks that she never called the girls at my parents house last night. Either too busy or a chicken sh*t. I think it was the latter. She was going to call them as soon as we got off the phone last night.

We had a little celebration for D6 at my folks house today for D6. Cake and ice cream. The wife calls. She is at Wallymart during a late lunch at 2:30. She asks if I got her email. I say no. She said that the things that I put in my email was fine. I said ok. I asked about the pinata and she said that she will look for it. She says she got D6 outfit already. Looking for D11 now and if we have looked through the Halloween stuff at home yet. I said that is going to happen today. She asked if we were at the apartment.

????

"Uh, no. We're still at my parents house. I am going to the store later."
"Okay. Because I have her gift there."



BTW, HOOK 'EM HORNS BABY!!!!!!!!!



The girls decide that they want to stay longer at grandma's. I leave to go to the store and then go home to clean up and look through the Halloween stuff. On the highway, the wife calls again. She asks me if I can get some shredded cheese. She lets me know what she is purchasing. Condiments and stuff.

Okay?

She asks if I can bring the ice chest and I offer to also bring the ice. She has been pretty chipper, so far. I'm just short with her. I keep ending the calls.

At home, cleaning, washing clothes and dishes, and getting the Halloween stuff out of the shed, she calls me again from the apartment. Asks to talk to the girls. I tell her that I'm waiting for them to come home still. She asks me to have them call them. I say okay and say goodbye. She sounded disappointed.

The girls call me later and ask to spend the night again. I say ok. I remind D11 to call her mother. She says ok. I tell her to go ahead and just do it now in case she forgets. She says ok.

Like a nucklehead, I call the wife about 30 minutes later. About 8:30 now. I tell her that I had spoken to D11 and they will spend the night again and that I had reminded D11 to call her. She says she did call already and she is waiting for D6 to call her. As I try to end the conversation, she asks me what time I'm bringing the girls. I tell her after church. She says ok. I say bye. This conversation, she sounded a bit short towards me.

I had checked my emails at work from home. Her email probably got quaranteened again. No email. Maybe I'll see the notice to me by tomorrow.

Does work know that I am trying hard to not be in contact with her much, too?

Just contact about the party and the kids. Es todo.

Got some football in. Now watching LSU lose to Florida. Made myself some cross cut ribs and mashed potato's. Glass of wine. Maybe watch Baby Mama later.