I think he agreed to MC because it will save him $$ in the long run. Whatever the reason, I am happy. At least i can get him there, talking and opening up...which can lead to some good things...I think/hope. I asked him to come with an open mind, and not the mind set that it was not going to work...and that he couldn't just sit there like a bump on a log. He agreed to participate.
I think your sitch sounds VERY promising. W sounds like she is coming around a little...be gentle...and don't push...let her come to you....and you will be fine!!!
20 months...crazy, I can't believe it myself. i am still in shock he agreed to MC. All i know, God works in some mysterious ways...and I am thankful for the opportunity to try to put this R/M back together. Considering it took a little sweet talking...and negotiating...i am pleased with the results. Now, it's getting MC to move in a positive direction!!!
thanks for the support VS!!! (((((VS)))))) christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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