Hmm, FLTC. W didn't want me, "loved" someone else yet was stuck with me day in and day out and to make it worse I was doing a million things to make her life easier! W was trying to do what in her mind was right, staying with me because she'd made a wedding vow (I guess the part about faithfulness slipped her mind)and for the kids. Yup, the resentment was just brewing away for years and thus the gut punches. I chose to take them and stay trying to repair what I could, didn't work. I could have left years ago, everyone told me to leave years ago but I wouldn't until I knew in my heart there was no chance of saving this thing. She made her choices and I made mine. Btw, Happy Anniversary!
