GB, Interesting, huh? She's very "put upon". The weight of the world on her shoulders, because no one else could possibly do it as well.

wii: Here's something I recently though about you and me. what was it in US that allowed these women to really beat us up? To me, I think I was oblivous to a lot of things that made her angry. I never gave a though to "the kids should go to the dentist", maybe we should re-finance the mortgage, gee, the car needs to be replaced.

Not that I didn't care, but these things never seemed to be on my radar scope. They STILL aren't to a large degree. Not cuz I don't care, but I'm plotting my next workday, the next hockey game, the next call to my daughter. A lot of pucks get by me in life. She felt so put upon. Maybe rightly so, I don't know.

She felt if she didn't do a lot of stuff, it wouldn't get done. Not that I wouldn't do it if asked. She freely admits that. I guess it's like "Gee, the cure for cancer shoud be so obvious", but stuff really gets by me. If I'm reminded of it, I do it, but not recognizing it in the first place ripped her. I don't know how to get color on a black and white TV, so I would NEVER probably see the things she wanted me to.

What about your wife. What got her so "Snarky" (Your word; love it!)? Why did she continue to kidney puch you? Do you think something in YOUR persona brought it on, like I do? Not That we're bad people, it's just that some stuff really sets them on fire!

I'm pretty easy to get along with, as I imagine you are rom your posts. As a good friend in Iraq said to me: "Everyone likes FLTC, except Mrs. FLTC"