I made it through D's birthday. She is now offically sweet 16. Next weekend she will be having a bonfire at my house to celebrate with friends. H has agreed to help, but I'l see if he pulls through or not. In the past I have done most of the party planning and throwing.

H ended up getting D a gift. Of course I had to make suggestions and he called and texted me several times during the process. I was surprised that he bought her a very nice card. We went out for a dysfunctional family dinner as well.

I ended up breaking out in hives this week. I think it is probably stress although my Dr. is sure it is an allerrgic reaction to something. H thinks it is stress...hmmmm, maybe he should stop inducing stress. As he told a mutual friend this week nothing has changed. Which translated from WAS speak means, H still doesn't want to be married, but he still doesn't want to do anything about it and file. The clock is ticking and he is running out of time.


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008