superstar, I wish I knew....I am a WAW...wanting to put things back together, I guess I am the odd duck out
I would do your research before throwing the towel in.
Each scenario is different
Keep your chin up. Nothing is over until papers are signed....my H came to me this week, in the middle of our drama...with D filed and atty's fighting in court and agreed to MC...so never doubt yourself....you can do this!!
(((SS)))) christarn
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"