Hi Amy, thanks for the tequila drinking advice. If I ever get into a shot contest, I'll remember not to chase with anything.:P
As for being a friend, there are a lot of things that allow me to do that. First, the growing I've done has left me feeling like I've never been married. On top of that, we've both put a bullet in our old marriage, it wasn't working. But, the new me might be able to be her friend and it's possible that through that friendship, with a little MLC on both our parts, we might find our way back together. It's a long shot, but, it's a shot and a week ago, I wouldn't have guessed that we had this much of a chance.