My Crazy mess, these are the days of my life!

[christarn]

breakfast went well

he agreed to MC

I agreed if MC doesn't work, to sign D papers stipulating he would go through the annulment process in the Catholic church. Him doing MC is worth more than any money I have invested in the home.

I asked him if he would actively participate and go in with a good mind set...not one of this is not going to work. He giggled. I also asked that he participate in counseling...not just sit there...again he giggled.

We agreed on a counselor. I am having my atty. draw up legal papers; that was what he asked for. He wanted paper work that would hold up in court.

I was actually shocked, because he said a few times how bad this was getting to him and messing with his head. He talked about how it even bothered him at work and he turned down a position as a foreman until things are decided between he and I.

All in all, I think things went well. I am happy he decided on MC. I plan to have my L draw up paper work early next week, and hope to have our first session of MC within in 2 weeks. I am going to call the Mcounselor and ask her how many sessions minimum she feels it would take, and stipulate that in the paper work. I told him, he wasn't getting away with 2 or 3...this was going to be a hard core effort. He was ok with that.

I think/feel once we are into counceling a ways/few sessions, I think we need to talk about OW...and how can we work on R/M if there is OW in picture. I am hoping he will have already taken care of the problem prior to this needing to be fixed!!! we shall see!

i am happy with the way things went. Time will tell, at least he agreed to C...this to me is huge!

((((to all of you))))) for your love and support!!! I couldn't have "shined" today without you!!

Sandi~ he didn't make me cry!! I smiled the whole time!! thank you for helping me find strength!

FG~ Thanks for being you

VS~ Thanks for your support and encouragement....glad we found eachother!!!

Goldey~ thanks for stopping in and checking on me!!

thanks again guys....you all rock!!
christa