Thank you naej,

I can say "ditto" for most everything you wrote above. My H sounds a lot like your XH.

I have written several threads and posted my whole story even describing me and the OW. If you feel like an interesting read, click on some of my previous posts. I have only been posting since early July and sure do wish I found this site months and months ago. My chances would have been better I think.

Oh naej, you might want to be cozy with a hot cup of tea or a cocktail. I will warn you it's quite a story.

I am in Maine, I am just going to fix some supper.

We are having a beautiful fall here in New England and I spent the day outside so I am hoping the sun and fresh air will make me sleep well. It's not something I am getting a lot of right now.

I know you will read this in the am....I hope you had a good night's sleep.

With appreciation for being my friend,

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11