Thanks for your response...so now I have to ask for some advice. I had kind of contemplated cancelling the counseling session. What do you think? In a lot of ways it almost doesn't make sense to spend money on something that appears to be so hopeless. Do you think there is some merit to the notion that sometimes too much has happened for anything decent to be born of a situation? The other part of me says I'm being a martar and wallowing in self pity....not sure "which of my personalities" is the smarter one sometimes
My H was very similar about the house when we first bought it...put a lot of effort into getting the backyard just so. He still references all the work he put in to things and then begins feeling sorry for himself by saying "and I'm the one that had to lose everything". These comments are starting to really rub me the wrong was as I don't think walking away from something is the same things as "losing it". I think he's got his own martyrdom going on!
I still have no idea what caused the fire alarm thing. I'm going to rummage around the house and see if I can find the user's manual as the PG&E guy recommended.
I totally agree on the weather. It went from HOT to I used my heater for a bit last night. I think us Californians have a hard time tolerating the cold...at least I do!
I don't have a FB account...don't even know where to start. What exactly is FB? Is it kind of like myspace? Don't have one of those either! I think I'm old and out of touch
