So if he were to file first, it lessens her guilt? That is where I think that my W is at.
Even when my A was outted and I was in turmoil and shock. I was dealing with a H whom was almost beyond grief. I was dealing with my own confusion , grief and pain and to make that all feel a little better - I wanted my H to leave, get away from me etc.
As a little time passed it settled a bit and I still wanted him out of my face. Hell yes, it is easier to run than face what you did and if H filed for D than I could say " Must of been what he wanted all along - thats why I turned to another man "
My question to you is - If you have no where to go why are you in such a hurry ? What will a D do for you ? You are not sure if thats what you want so why push it ?
