I have to say that I thought the same as Daisy; the email is too pressurising and even a bit controlling. I know that you may be apprehensive about the coming weeks but the more relaxed you are the easier it will be. You just have to keep quiet and go with the flow - your h's flow. You relinquish all control and I'm afraid you can't pre-empt anything either. Remember not to assume.
He seems to be getting a bit stressed about you not sending dates. Personally I would just drop him an email tomorrow saying something light like 'just to let you know I will be arriving in Dublin ...'. It will give him more time to prepare and get his head in order.
