In my opininon and as a W who had an A. It takes tremendous strength to get over OM and a tremendous amount of wanting your M to work.

If she cant stop contact or get over him, I dont think you stand a chance until the R with Om goes sour ( and it will ).

You prepared to wait ?

Be careful she is not leading you to pull the plug so to speak, which will ease her guilt.

You can bet your last dollar - that she wants her cake and to eat it to.

Last edited by max030; 10/11/08 07:26 PM.